Friday, March 16, 2012

Ugh, Another Long and Boring Blog Post

Ok, I've been MIA from my blog for over a week now and I apologize to my fan (i.e. my mother). The main reason I haven't blogged is because I've been in kind of a bad mood for most of the past week and I didn't think it would be very attractive of me to be using this blog to rant about how annoyed I've been. But now that I am in a slightly better mood I will record the 'highs' and 'lows' of the past week or so.

First as a preface, last weekend I moved out of my hostel and into an apartment with a girl I know from work. Several of my 'highs' and 'lows' depend on this.

Lows:
  • Last Friday I was feeling sick. My whole body felt achy and I had the chills. I went home from work a little early, put on 4 layers of clothes, and 2 blankets and slept for 15 hours.
  • Saturday I moved. Moving is always a low.
  • After moving into my new apartment I realized that there was no door between the living room and the bedroom. This would not normally be a huge problem except that my Mongolian roommate is a fanatical soccer fan and likes to watch Premier League football matches at 3am sometimes. I'm working on putting up a curtain at the very least, but because of other events last week, it is still not up yet.
  • Sunday morning I got a call from the hostel that I moved out of. I had not completely moved out yet because I had paid through the 13th so I wasn't in a big rush to get the last few things out. However they needed the room immediately because they had to shuffle around some of the guests because a Mongolian teenage soccer team had arrived and was taking up most of the hostel's beds. I was annoyed that I had to go over there before church and move the rest of my stuff out even though technically the room was still mine. (Yes I considered protesting and putting up a fight but after deliberating my options I decided it just wasn't worth it.)
  • Monday night, while walking to church for an activity, I fell. And by fell I mean I ate it, hard. I didn't even slip on ice or anything, I just tripped on some uneven pavement. I think it must have looked pretty spectacular too because I seem to recall some rolling and tumbling. The first thing I checked was that both my wrists were ok, thank heavens. I landed really hard on my left elbow though and within about an hour after my fall I couldn't bend or extend my elbow past a 90 degree angle, and it hurt. This of course made me freak out quite a bit and I was afraid something was broken.
  • Having an arm that I couldn't bend or extend meant that I couldn't reach my hand to my head which resulted in my not being able to do my hair for 2 days, meaning I had the same ponytail for 3 days. Very attractive of me.
  • I got a cold starting on Monday but peaking on Wednesday and Thursday. I don't get sick very often (I pride myself on a good immune system) and this was the worst cold I've had that I can remember. I stayed home from work for most of Thursday, only going in at 4pm and that's just because I was supposed to go to some ex-pat networking event with my boss that night that I couldn't get out of. Being sick and having to go out in the cold and the terribly polluted air made me not such a fan of Mongolia this week. Thankfully my bad mood was more angry than sad, so there were no tears involved, which is usually my go-to emotional outburst.
  • My new roommate keeps trying to feed me. This would normally be a good thing, but she's trying to feed me random Mongolian-type food. Now I've enjoyed most of the Mongolian food people have given me since I've been here, but I'm not ready to start eating it regularly yet. When I'm at home I like to eat my own food (like pasta and salads once in a while, but mainly bread with chocolate spread). I don't want to eat fired eggs with rice and some weird pickled things.
 Highs:
  • Last Saturday morning I was walking to piano lessons like normal and was pulling a packed wheelie suitcase to get a jump-start on my move. But I was kind of weak after having been sick the night before and so I broke down and hailed my first taxi on my own in Mongolia. I communicated with the driver only through hand gestures and it worked out great. I was very proud.
  • Saturday after the hideousness of moving I went with a couple of friends from church to the black market. It was awesome (see pictures below). They sell pretty much everything. I don't think I will ever be able to navigate or negotiate without a Mongolian. My favorite part are the endless rows of bolts of fabric.
  • Saturday night I did 3 loads of laundry because my new apartment has a washing machine. Seriously the highlight of the weekend.
  • On Sunday church was awesome as usual. I made a couple of new friends and the Sunday School teacher was using some English materials for her lesson and handed me the pages as she was done with them so I was able to follow along really well; I thought it was incredibly nice of her.
  • Monday night I went to a church activity (the one I was going to when I fell) for the Young Single Adults. There was a visiting church authority and so they had a special meeting. It was really nice and fun to see all the Mongolian YSAs.
  • After falling on Monday and being freaked out about my arm, on Tuesday I decided I had to get it x-rayed so I would know for sure and feel better about it. This is in the 'highs' section because the process of calling my international insurance company, finding a clinic, making an appointment for that day, and going to the clinic was a very smooth process. The whole experience was great, I was in and out of the clinic within an hour and I was able to do it all by myself. And the great news is that I had no broken bones. My elbow was just severely bruised and the joint was swollen which was inhibiting the mobility, but would get better with time.
  • Tuesday I got a call from my friend from church asking me if I would speak on church on the coming Sunday. I would normally never put this in the 'highs' section but I've been really excited to get to participate in church stuff here. (A couple of weeks ago I was asked to give a prayer in Relief Society and I was practically crying with joy because I hadn't had the opportunity to pray out loud or hear a prayer in English since I've been here - sorry, tangent.) Anyway, so preparing for my talk on Sunday has been good and I'm excited to be involved in my ward.
  • I watched all 4 seasons of the British TV show Merlin in the span of about 6 days. It has become my new obsession. I'm currently going through withdrawals because there won't be any new episodes until September. (This should probably be in the 'lows' section now that I think about it.)
  • The Thursday night ex-pat networking event was ok. The only really good part was that I got my English friend Anna to come too and I was able to chat and catch up with her, so it gets to be in the 'highs' section.
  • Friday night my boss made me go to another expat meeting at the UK Embassy. This meeting takes place every Friday night at a little pub that they have on the Embassy premises and you have to have a card to get in (I was the guest of my boss who has a card). I was not thrilled about going because I was still feeling a little sick and hanging out at pubs, randomly meeting people is not my favorite thing to do, but my boss had been meaning to take me for 2 months and we were finally going. So I popped an Excederin Migraine and met my boss there. Turns out I had a great time. It was very casual and I was able to meet and talk to a few foreigners. I gave out all the business cards I had on me and got several in return. I'm probably going to get my own membership so I can go back anytime I want. (Plus one of the bartenders was really cute so that just makes everything better.)
And that is a faithful narrative of all my dealing with the past week. It felt like I was in a bad mood for days but after remember the good things, maybe it wasn't so bad. Sorry for the heavy text, light pictures blog post. As a consolation here are some pictures from the black market and a random giant ice cube I passed last week.
 
Giant ice cube. Seriously it was like as big as an oven.
Black Market
Bolts of fabric
Lots of fabric

3 comments:

  1. I've only seen 1 season of Merlin I think. Loved it. I think I'm going to start and finish Gane of Thrones this weekend (I have a 3 day weekend, yippee!!!) I've been feeling lost without a show. I'm so glad your elbow was not too serious. Good to know the health care went smoothly! Can you find a wood or plastic partition somewhere? Like those 3-paneled decorative screens or something? That + curtain might be a good "door". Are you living there til July?

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  2. Swathi - Game of Thrones is awesome and addictive. When I watched it last year I think I did it in the span of 4 days (during school). If I don't have a show to watch there's nothing to look forward to every day (wow that sounds sad, but it's true). You should watch the rest of Merlin. Fantasy + cheesy + British = perfection. I actually put up a thick curtain in the doorway today. We'll see how it goes though. Have a great 3 day weekend!

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  3. Reading your blog always makes me smile Stephanie! I hope you are recovered from your sickness and tumble! ps cute bartender, get that membership girl!

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